【勿因過小而為之】NEVER UNDERESTIMATE A SMALL MISTAKE (English writing below)
她閱讀我文章許久
終於鼓起勇氣聯絡我
她說從我文章和影片學到的
之前的風水師看了幾年
都沒教過她
她家運一直沒更好
希望我幫她批八字看風水
她說晚上會把資料發給我
結果隔天我才收到資料
沒有道歉沒有解釋
彷彿一切都是理所當然的
直到我問
最後我選擇不幫她看
六月時
一位男士欲找我批八字
他說七月份會再聯絡我
結果九月才收到他的私訊
他一樣沒有道歉
沒有解釋
直到我問
我請他另請高明
三月時
一位女士經友人介紹
想我為他們夫婦倆批八字
我說自己的命自己負責
請她先生親自聯絡我
五月份
她再次私訊我
想在七月或八月見我
我告訴她兩人先捐款再給我資料
她說捐了後會聯絡我
結果九月份
我才收到資料
她沒主動道歉沒解釋
直到我問
後來我請他們另請高明
她先生始終也沒聯絡過我
一直都是太太
可能很多人以為
我們這些風水師和生意人
沒什麼兩樣
有錢就賺
客人沒信用沒道德
只要紅包到手who cares?
I care.
當你說你晚上會私訊我
我是真的會騰出時間來等你
當你要求我安排某個時候見我時
我是真的會先安排再等你的回覆
我會給你機會解釋
為什麼出爾反爾
但不要說「我還沒給你資料就覺得無所謂」
之類的話
沒把握做到的事就不要先說
這是妄語
如果說了又沒做到
要主動解釋認錯
不要當作什麼都沒發生過
你忙
剛巧我更忙
第一位客人說
找我時就已做好心理準備
我不會幫她看
這樣的心態甚奇怪
你一方面很想我幫你的家庭
又何必另一方面做出令人匪夷所思的舉動？
為什麼沒有好好爭取及把握？
難不成你以為
我就那麽喜歡跟錢作對嗎？😄
你能夠這樣隨便地對我
也必定會這樣對別人
我的工作是教導你
如何把生命裡的障礙物移開
讓你的發展可以更順
這個障礙物
簡短地說
就是你的陋習
你的陋習造就了你的性格
製造了你的命運
也奠定了你的未來
你如果不願移開這個障礙物
就會永遠面對同樣的問題
不斷重覆循環著
永遠不會解決問題
永遠無法脫離原本命運的軌跡
我不是一般的風水命理師
我給你的不是暫時的鎮定劑
因為那治標不治本
我的能力可以讓你知道
你是什麼時候
讓你的命運出現了違和
給你真正的解藥
但如果你習慣
把別人的時間和信任
當成你的方便來使喚
而不覺得自己有過
會影響命運
那很抱歉
我不是一個好的選擇
請另請高明
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She has been reading my posts for quite some time. One day, she finally plucked up the courage to contact me. She told me the knowledge she learnt from my writing and videos were things that her Feng Shui master of a few years never taught her. Her family luck had not been improving. So she wished for me to help her analyse her Bazi and audit her home Feng Shui.
She told me she would send me her details in the night but I only received it the next day. There was no apology or explanation. It was as if things were taken for granted. Till I asked for it.
In the end, I declined to help her.
In June, a gentleman sought my help to analyse his Bazi. He said he would contact me again in July. But I only received his PM in September.
There was similarly no apology and explanation, till I asked for his reason for going back on his words. I advised him to seek another Master afterwards.
In March, a lady looked for me upon her friend's recommendation. She wanted Bazi analysis for herself and her husband. I told her that every one should be responsible for his/her own destiny, and asked for her husband to contact me personally.
In May, she PM me again, requesting for a date in July or August for both of them. I told her to proceed with the donation and send me the details.
But I only got the information in September and it was incomplete. There was no explanation and apology till I asked for her reason.
I did not take up the jobs but invited her to seek another Master. Throughout this time, I never received any message from her husband. The lady was still doing all the liaising.
Perhaps many people think that we Feng Shui practitioners are no different from the usual businessmen. If there is money, we will take it. Who cares whether the client lacks trustworthiness or morals, as long as we receive the red packet?
Well, I care.
When you say you will PM me at night, I will really make time to wait for you.
When you ask me to arrange a certain time to meet, I will really make the arrangement while waiting for your reply.
While I do give you the opportunity to explain why you went back on your words, do not come and tell me things like "I thought it's okay since I never give you my information".
If you do not have faith that you will do what you say, then don't say first. Because that constitutes a lie.
If you are unable to keep your word for whatever reason, take the initiative to explain and apologise. Don't act as if nothing happened.
You are busy. What a coincidence. So am I, if not more than you.
The first client said she was mentally prepared that I would not take up her case when she contacted me. This is a very bewildering mindset. If you are very keen to seek my service to help your family, ,why would you do something to screw it up?
Also, did you think I enjoy being loggerheads with money? 😄
If you can treat me so carelessly, you can easily treat others the same way too.
My job is to teach you how to move the obstacles away from your life, so that you can have a smoother development ahead.
This obstacle, simply put, is your bad habit.
Your bad habit forms your character, which establishes your destiny and goes on to create your future.
If you are unwilling to move this obstruction away, you will always face the same problems and sink into a vicious cycle. The problem never gets solved and you are unable to break free from the trajectory of your original destiny.
I am not an ordinary Feng Shui practitioner. What I can give you is not just a temporary tranquliser, for that does not cure the problem at its root. I am capable of telling you at what point in time your Destiny fell sick and the antidote to resolving it all.
However, if you are very used to making use the time and trust of others for your own convenience, and see nothing wrong with that, I am truly sorry. I am a bad choice for you. Please seek another more qualified Master.
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